Pulling Threads, Weaving Authenticity

Have you ever felt off around a certain time of year—sad, anxious, or even physically drained—without knowing why? Then suddenly, you realize: This is the anniversary of that thing that happened. Maybe it was a loss, a breakup, a trauma, or a life-changing event.This is called an anniversary reaction, and it happens because our bodies remember even when our minds don’t. Trauma isn’t just a memory—it’s stored in our nervous system, emotions, and even our physical sensations. When that anniversary arrives, your body keeps score, resurfacing old pain, triggers, and feelings you thought you had moved past.In this episode, we’ll explore:🧠 Why our bodies hold onto trauma and how anniversary reactions work💭 How trauma anniversaries might show up emotionally and physically📅 How to prepare for these difficult dates so they don’t catch you off guard💖 Practical strategies to move through the pain and use it for healing🌱 How grief can be an opportunity for growth and deeper self-compassionIf you’ve ever struggled with feeling the weight of your past around certain dates, this video is for you. You are not alone, and you don’t have to just suffer through it. Let’s talk about how we can honor our grief, process our emotions, and reclaim our healing—one step at a time.💬 Have you experienced an anniversary reaction before? How did it show up for you? Let’s start a conversation in the comments.✨ If this video helped you, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share it with someone who might need it. You deserve healing, and we’re in this together.🔔 Subscribe for more videos on trauma healing, emotional wellness, and self-care: [Insert Your Channel Link]📚 Resources & Further Support:📖 The Body Keeps the Score by Dr. Bessel van der Kolk#traumahealing #thebodykeepscore #grief #mentalhealth

Welcome! I’m Leslie, a holistic therapist, and coach. In this video, I’m sharing my personal journey out of the fog of disconnection, uncertainty, and self-doubt—toward a life of authenticity, peace, and purpose.I know how hard life can feel when you’re overwhelmed by struggles with money, relationships, careers, and family. I’ve been there too. But through my own experience with therapy, coaching, and spiritual guidance, I learned how to peel back the layers of trauma and misalignment to find a healthier, more grounded version of myself.Now, I’m combining my life experience, professional training, and studies to help others process their trauma, reconnect with their bodies, and live the life they’re meant to live. Through The LooM, my practice and online space, I provide support in the form of therapy, coaching, courses, and accessible resources for those who might not otherwise have access to mental health support.In this video, I explain my mission and how I’m here to guide you on your own healing journey. Whether you’re ready to dive into deep inner work or just need small, practical tools to help you feel better today, I’m here for you.✨ Subscribe to join this community and receive more tips, insights, and support.✨ Follow me on social media: @thelesliemathews and @the.loom.life✨ Learn more about my work at: theloomlife.comYou deserve healing. Let’s begin this journey together.#Therapist #HolisticHealing #MentalHealthSupport #Authenticity #HealingJourney #TraumaHealing #Therapy #LifeCoach #SelfGrowth #TheLooM

In this video, I explore the complex emotional experience of feeling both excitement and dread when preparing for something important, like visiting family or facing a meaningful event. These dual feelings are more common than we realize, especially when past experiences, family dynamics, or anxiety are involved. Together, we’ll dive into why this emotional mix happens, how to sit with it, and practical ways to navigate it with self-compassion. If you’ve ever felt torn between anticipation and hesitation, this discussion is for you.Let’s explore how to honor both emotions and move forward mindfully. Don’t forget to like, share, and subscribe for more content on healing, growth, and authentic living.#EmotionalHealing #FamilyDynamics #MindfulLiving #TheLooM

Do you find yourself stuck in a loop of overthinking, replaying conversations, or obsessing over things you can’t control? You’re not alone. In this video, I share powerful, therapist-approved strategies to help you break free from rumination and regain mental clarity.What You’ll Learn:✔️ How to recognize when you’re ruminating✔️ Mindfulness techniques to bring you back to the present✔️ How to challenge negative thought patterns✔️ Practical ways to redirect your focus✔️ Self-compassion exercises to ease anxiety✔️ The deeper emotional roots of rumination—and how to heal themWhen we get caught in rumination, our mind is trying to solve a problem, but often, it only creates more stress and self-doubt. By shifting our approach, we can stop the mental spiral and find real peace.✨ Let’s break free together. ✨📌 Timestamps:0:00 Intro – Why We Ruminate2:15 Step 1: Awareness & Naming the Thought4:30 Step 2: Mindfulness Practices7:10 Step 3: Reframing & Challenging Thoughts10:05 Step 4: Taking Action & Problem-Solving12:50 Step 5: Self-Compassion & Letting Go15:30 Final Thoughts & Next Steps💬 Comment below: What’s one strategy you’re excited to try? Let’s support each other in this journey.🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe for more insights on mindfulness, mental wellness, and authentic living!#Overthinking #Rumination #Mindfulness #SelfGrowth #MentalHealth #HealingJourney

Do you find yourself stuck in a loop of overthinking, replaying conversations, or obsessing over things you can’t control? You’re not alone. In this video, I share powerful, therapist-approved strategies to help you break free from rumination and regain mental clarity.What You’ll Learn:✔️ How to recognize when you’re ruminating✔️ Mindfulness techniques to bring you back to the present✔️ How to challenge negative thought patterns✔️ Practical ways to redirect your focus✔️ Self-compassion exercises to ease anxiety✔️ The deeper emotional roots of rumination—and how to heal themWhen we get caught in rumination, our mind is trying to solve a problem, but often, it only creates more stress and self-doubt. By shifting our approach, we can stop the mental spiral and find real peace.✨ Let’s break free together. ✨📌 Timestamps:0:00 Intro – Why We Ruminate2:15 Step 1: Awareness & Naming the Thought4:30 Step 2: Mindfulness Practices7:10 Step 3: Reframing & Challenging Thoughts10:05 Step 4: Taking Action & Problem-Solving12:50 Step 5: Self-Compassion & Letting Go15:30 Final Thoughts & Next Steps💬 Comment below: What’s one strategy you’re excited to try? Let’s support each other in this journey.🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe for more insights on mindfulness, mental wellness, and authentic living!#Overthinking #Rumination #Mindfulness #SelfGrowth #MentalHealth #HealingJourney